How to actually network and grow meaningful connections online

January 5, 2026

We’ve reached the logical conclusion of the broadcast era. For a decade, we were told that “connecting the world” meant following thousands of strangers and scrolling through endless feeds of one-to-many broadcasts. But look around: the intellectual platforms have fallen into the same trap.

Substack, currently a sanctuary for long-form thought, is rapidly becoming one big, long, endless feed of people we don’t know. After scrolling for 5 minutes, you wonder ‘huh this feels oddly familiar’. That’s because it’s not innovative, it’s the same old algorithm in a new suit. We give it two years before it becomes the same performative cesspool we all fled. And Reddit? While useful, it remains a sea of anonymity where you never truly know who is on the other side of the screen and again, there’s that endless feed.

The Data around Disenchantment

The cesspool isn’t just a feeling; it’s a documented trend. The data shows that the world has already moved on from the one-to-many, endless feed model:

oyster's approach to social media

At oyster, we believe social media isn’t the problem, the delivery system is. When we designed oyster, we didn’t look at LinkedIn for inspiration. We looked at Apple Music.

Think about your favorite music app: it’s not an endless feed of every song ever recorded. It’s an exploratory experience curated specifically to your taste, your mood, and your history. It’s designed to help you discover your next favorite artist, not to drown you in noise.

We applied that same philosophy to your career. oyster is a high-design, intuitive space where discovery is a science, not a scroll.

How oyster is Connecting Built Different

We’ve intentionally stripped away the features that turn platforms into noise-machines.

The Bottom Line: Curation Over Chaos

The era of the “one-to-many” broadcast is over. People are tired of being part of a “user base”; they want to be part of a village. By prioritizing the “Apple Music” style of discovery over the “Substack” style of broadcasting, oyster helps you find the people and organizations that actually matter.

Stop scrolling the cesspool. Start unlocking quality connections to help grow your career and life on oyster.

Sign up today:

https://oyster.thekindsocialmediacompany.com

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